Let’s talk about the often-overlooked world of disability etiquette.
Trust this, just because someone has a disability doesn’t mean they don’t have a sense of humor about it.
So, let’s sprinkle in some laughter while we take a good, hard look at five things people with disabilities wish you’d stop doing.
Get ready to know things people with disabilities wish you’d stop doing.
The Overzealous Helper
Picture this: a friend with a mobility aid is struggling to open a door when suddenly, a well-meaning stranger swoops in like a superhero.
While the gesture is appreciated, it can sometimes be too much!
Remember, not all heroes wear capes; some just wear a polite smile and give a little space.
Not that you shouldn’t help, but a little space for growth, convenience, and a sense of belonging should help.
Touching Without Asking
Here’s a funny rule of thumb: If it’s not yours, don’t touch it!
This applies to pretty much everything, including a person’s wheelchair.
Imagine someone approaching your car in a parking lot and trying to “fix” it because it didn’t start.
Yeah, doesn’t feel good. Let’s keep those hands to ourselves unless invited.
Assuming We Need Help
Just because someone uses a mobility aid or has a visible disability doesn’t mean they need help all the time!
It’s like offering to carry a full-grown adult over a puddle; sometimes it’s just unnecessary and a little patronizing.
Think of it like this: treat us like the capable ninjas we are.
Making It All About You
Ah, the classic “I know just how you feel” shares.
While empathy is great, stories about your sore knee from that 5K you ran won’t win any gold stars here.
Instead, try listening and validating feelings without redirecting the conversation to your athletic achievements.
Using “Inspiration Pun”
Nothing says, “I don’t know how to have a real conversation,” like a dose of “inspiration pun.”
You know the kind, “Look at that person with a disability doing *normal* things! Aren’t they inspiring?”
Newsflash: We’re just living our lives, folks! Save the inspiration for the gym and let your words reflect authentic admiration instead.
Wrapping it Up
So there you have it, five things people with disabilities would love for you to reconsider.
Remember that we’re all human; a little humor goes a long way.
The goal here is to promote understanding, connection, and, of course, some good laughs!
We can create a community that celebrates our differences by embracing awareness and being open to change.
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